‘To err is human; to forgive divine’ is a very famous quote that is timeless indeed. Relationships are defined by the ups and downs and the downs can sometime turn into bad and ugly arguments or big and small mistakes made by either of the parties. We often unintentionally end up hurting the people we love by our actions and then regret it thoroughly. It is at such times, that it is important to let go of one’s ego, realise one’s mistake and apologize wholeheartedly. If you’re currently dealing with a cross partner as well, then we have a few really cute ideas to apologise to them.
- Say sorry with food
The best way to apologise is with food. Most people have a weakness for food and will definitely melt at this effort to apologise. The key is to make it yourself. Pour your heart and soul into it. You could start their day with their favourite food by serving breakfast in bed. What or how you cook isn’t half as important as the fact that you took the effort. That’s what matters in the end and they’re sure to appreciate it.
- Plan something they enjoy doing
Since the argument must’ve been quite a mood killer for the both of you and knowing it was your fault, go the extra mile by planning something for them; something that they enjoy doing. It could be anything from watching a movie together, going out to their favourite restaurant, shopping, etc. On the other hand, be prepared to understand and accept, that they may want to do their favourite thing without you at the time. If you think it’ll distract them by being with their friends, make it happen. Giving a little space always works to calm someone down.
- Sticky notes
Another adorable way to apologize it by putting up sticky notes in the house. You could put them up in places they least expect, such as the toiletries cabinet, their wardrobe, inside their laptop, etc. You could apologize in several statements this way. But make sure to keep the messages short and sweet so they can be read in a single glance; after all an angry partner might not want to spend too long trying to read your little scribbly handwriting.
- Send a box of chocolates to their workplace
If they’ve woken up and left to work already before you could apologise, then don’t be disheartened. Send a box of chocolates to their workplace to surprise them. You could attach a little handwritten note saying ‘I’m sorry’ with it as well. They won’t be expecting it at all but it sure to melt them. Plus, who doesn’t like chocolates? Try it out, it’ll work for sure. If you’ve made quite a big mistake, then you could also send a gift along with the chocolates. Hidden halo engagement rings would be such an amazing surprise for them.
- Be upfront
Finally, the best and easiest, yet fairly adorable and much appreciated way is to simply be upfront. There is nothing better than letting go of your ego and just apologizing not just by saying sorry but also by how you have come to realise that it was your fault. An honest confession is bound to take up a lot of space in their heart when they see the genuine remorse in your eyes.
It’s not just about the apology. Saying sorry is easy and does not require much effort; it’s the making up to them that matter most. You have to compensate for their hurt feelings in the most genuine ways possible. It is impractical to expect a relationship without arguments or fights, but what matters is to remember that always has to be you two against the problem, and not you against them. Once that is etched in your mind, resolving arguments will be easier than ever. Also, if you are keen on the idea of gifting them jewellery, then you can check out the Hatton garden engagement rings stores for great deals on jewellery items.