How to become popular in life?

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When we think of popular people, we often imagine arrogant people who bring it down and snub everyone. We clearly don’t want to be like them, but on the other hand, we envy them because there are many advantages to becoming popular:

  • They are promoted more easily.
  • Their opinion counts in decision-making. They are more influential.
  • They don’t need to go to people; it’s the others who come to them.
  • Their work is valued more.

How to become popular with all the advantages, without becoming imbued with yourself? 

What does it mean to be popular?

I’ll start with a little bit of theory, but it’s essential if we are to become popular in a good way.

There are really two ways to understand the notion of popularity:

For many adults we are no longer interested in popularity because we are not looking for fame or power. In addition, it is not a value that I particularly value. It is for this reason that I will be interested in the first notion of popularity (I am popular = everyone adores me).  To become a popular check this funny fake ids . It may help to suggest you better tips for future. There are briefly explained about famous personalities and their good deeds.

The two axes to develop to become popular

I did not invent this scheme. It comes from the work of researchers Coye and Dodge (1982). This model has mainly been used to understand the social dynamics of children in primary school. But in reality, we can always use it to become popular in a good sense in our communities: at work, in our association, in our neighborhood or village, etc… The objective of this article is to provide you with solutions to improve your social preference and your social impact.

How to become popular by being liked (social preference) 

Know people’s favorite topic of conversation

What is people’s favorite topic of discussion? Themselves Most of the time, when we speak, it is to talk about our plans, our feelings, our life. However, we must manage to orient the discussion towards the subjects which interest and which concern your interlocutor. It’s by making others interesting that you will start to be appreciated.

How do you go about finding the topics that make your interlocutor talk?

Listen to identify topics that are important to your interviewer.

Sometimes it takes a bit of digging to start finding amazing things about people. If you are content to ask only one question on each topic without going into depth, then your discussion will be superficial. Talking about others doesn’t mean you should never speak out. It’s important to create an exchange that isn’t just an interview. I invite you to read this article if you want to deepen this subject: How to master the art of conversation?

Retain first names and reuse them

The day you manage to remember people’s first names to reuse them in the discussion, you will see the positive impact it will have on your relationships. When people hear their first name, there are a lot of things going on in their head: They will perceive you as someone who listens to them and they will in turn try to remember your first name.

When you say a person’s first name, they immediately receive a dose of dopamine (the pleasure hormone). They perceive you as a very intelligent person, because few people are able to remember people’s first names immediately (it is especially that no one tries to remember first names, it is not that difficult). Since I was a professional magician, I have gotten into the habit of trying to remember the names of my spectators at each of my shows and the impact is phenomenal. People realize that you have remembered their first name and that helps increase the overall experience.

Put judgments and gossip in the trash

We all love gossip and gossip. I realize how difficult it is to stop negative gossip. However, they are    to be banned for a very simple reason. The researchers realized that when we speak in negative about a person, our interlocutor will unconsciously associate these negative traits with your personality. This phenomenon is called “Spontaneous Trait Transference”. If only politicians were aware of this psychological bias, they would stop spitting on each other. Regarding our judgments on others, again this is not easy to remove. Why not having judgment is important? To be appreciated, you have to be open-minded. You have to accept the fact that some people think differently and behave differently. To accept these differences, you have to be able to put yourself in their shoes. It doesn’t mean that you agree with them obviously. But if you are judgmental then you will fail to empathize.

Using a smile and physical contact to be popular

Smile

We always prefer to be in the company of people who radiate positive energy. Smiling is one of the ways to give off that impression. I don’t have much more to say on this subject. Everyone knows how to smile; you just need to do it more often. This is typically something people notice when you smile a lot. And people will thank you for it!

Touch

You have to know how to reach people at the right time and in the right place. But if you do it right, you will foster a good connection with your interlocutor. Touching a person during a conversation (pat on the shoulder, hug, and high five…) will release oxytocin in their brain. It is a neurotransmitter that produces an effect associated with trust and social relationships. Obviously, this “technique” should not be abused, which can quickly be badly perceived.

How to become popular by being noticed positively (social impact) 

Compared to other things in its environment For example, if you are the only woman in a group of men, then you will be considered “salient”. However, this is not trivial. Being salient changes how others perceive you. What is the consequence of being salient? In scientific terms: “The more salient a stimulus, the more likely it is to be considered causal.”

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